I want you to know, I see you ...

Ange Malakai — Speaker, Author, Coach

Looking back, I didn’t realise how much I was suffering. How much I was compromising. How much of myself I was hiding.

I was successful in all the ways the world tells you success is measured, and I thought maybe that should be enough. There were moments of joy, no doubt, but deep down I knew something was missing. I kept putting my joy on hold and my peace last, until I couldn’t anymore.

When my youngest brother took his own life at 42, it was the wake-up call I didn’t know I needed and one I never would have wanted. It was the hardest time of my life, but in that grief, he had left me a gift. The chance to truly see myself.

I realised that even though I had achieved success, I was still hiding my pain and that I hadn’t taken the time I needed to truly heal my wounds. I had achieved success in spite of my trauma, but inside I was struggling. There were parts of me that were still broken, and I was showing up in my wounds not only for myself but also for the people I loved most.

That loss was a wake-up call I couldn’t ignore. It forced me to stop pretending, to stop protecting everyone else at the expense of myself, and to get serious about real healing. Not the performative kind, but the kind that actually transforms you.

I knew from experience that traditional ways of dealing with trauma weren’t right for me. I didn’t want to spend years in therapy or keep reliving my pain. I wanted to understand how to heal, and in learning that, I found my purpose: to help others heal too.

I spent years studying, investing, and experimenting with the tools and practices that worked, combining them into a process that creates real and lasting change. Now I help people who have achieved success in spite of their trauma to heal, to become more of their authentic selves, and to find the purpose they were born for.

Healing doesn’t have to take years or mean retelling your story over and over. It takes honesty, courage, and the right tools to come home to yourself. You don’t have to keep suffering, and you don’t have to do it alone.

If you’re ready, then I am too.

You’ve got this, and I’ve got you.

With love,

Ange x